Adolescents are more likely to reduce their self-harm behaviours when underlying stressors are addressed or when they learn other ways of coping. Given that self-harm is often a coping strategy taken up in desperation, simply telling the adolescent to stop is unhelpful and invalidating.
Many mental disorders presenting in adolescence can be treated with psychological therapy and unnecessary prescribing can be avoided. Some schools have excellent wellbeing coordinators and counsellors who may be able to provide a safe school-based space and basic psychological assistance. An external therapist should be sought for more structured therapies such as cognitive or dialectical behavioural therapy. Both the Royal Australian and New Zealand College of Psychiatrists and the Australian Psychological Society websites have directories of practitioners.7,8 Headspace services have psychologists and sometimes a visiting child and adolescent psychiatrist.9 Public child and youth mental health services usually become involved in more severe, complex cases with significant family dysfunction, ongoing self-harm, case-management needs, and coordination between multiple agencies, such as child protection.
Poor sleep is correlated with self-harm. Sleep hygiene education should be provided.10
Parental involvement
Parents may be needed for practical issues, such as booking and paying for appointments, and addressing stressors that the adolescent cannot solve on their own. These include family conflict, unreasonable school or parental expectations, and bullying. Some parents require separate therapy where they learn to contain their own anxiety and provide support and validation for their teenager. This can run alongside individual therapy for the adolescent, with all clinicians in regular contact to ensure a consistent understanding of the clinical situation and management plan.
Confidentiality
The adolescent may not want their parents to know about their self-harm, usually fearing their parents will not understand, blame them, or simply tell them to stop their behaviour. While respecting these concerns, involving parents can help the adolescent feel less alone and better supported. Such fears should be addressed by speaking first with the adolescent about a shared, non-judgemental understanding of the behaviour, and offering to speak with the parents while the adolescent is in the room. Negotiating what the adolescent is willing to share with their parents is crucial. This may take several sessions before sufficient trust is built for the adolescent to involve their parents.
Occasionally, there is extremely dangerous self-harm which requires acute intervention. This can include urgent involuntary treatment under the relevant mental health act, usually when the patient cannot give informed consent, refuses treatment, and poses an acute risk to themselves or others. In these situations, the GP should also consider informing the parents, which may be against the adolescent’s wishes, and explain the reasons for doing so. This requires a careful balance between respecting doctor–patient confidentiality and supporting crucial caregivers.11
Preventing harm
Identifying early warning signs and formulating an agreed plan with all parties can reduce further episodes of self-harm. A useful tool is the traffic light system where the adolescent identifies what feelings and behaviours occur at different colours (see Table) and what the responses should be at each stage.12 The patient, family and clinicians follow the plan and update it if required.